It is a good idea and healthy for the spirit of the tribe to
have an occasional “PARENTS-ONLY” meeting to discuss tribe business
and details for upcoming events.
The parents meeting allows for the opportunity to effectively plan in detail and
make assignments. Valuable time can be wasted if all tribe business is conducted
at regular tribal meetings. Business cannot be conducted effectively when
distractions occur from children who are bored with the discussions. The
parents meeting also allows the adults additional time to strengthen friendships
and achieve a greater level of comfort in belonging to the program.
Suggestions and Recommendations
- Conduct monthly parent meetings or at least on some type of regular basis.
- The Chief should prepare and distribute an agenda in advance to allow the
parents time to reflect and prepare notes.
- If necessary, invite a council officer, elder, or other experienced person to help with planning or
problem solving.
- This could be an opportunity to invite a possible recruit (parent) to learn about the
program.
- If a separate night is difficult, take the children home, then reconvene for the parents meeting.